7 things not to say to your Italian boss

Are you thinking about working in Italy? Then prepare yourself well, because some things are quite different than in the low countries. To help you on your way, here's a list of 7 topics that you should avoid if you have an Italian boss.

1. 'No, thanks. I've already had coffee.'

Excuse me? You refuse a coffee break? Coffee breaks are the time when important matters are discussed with your Italian boss and colleagues. In addition, they help build relationships and foster understanding. Yes, everyone has already had a cup of coffee when they show up for work. But that is no reason to refuse a second, third or fourth cup. Besides, those espressos are small, aren't they?

2. 'That e-mail was sent after working hours, so I didn't read it again.'

Where the hell do you think you are? In France? In some countries it may be customary not to bother people with work-related emails in private time, but not in Italy. Expect emails at the most unusual times. And be prepared to answer them, if you need to.

No one can force you to, but it shows your boss that your coffee break jokes are paired with a will to invest in the company.

3. "I'm taking a month off in October."

Italians also have vacation days that they can take when they want to take it off. But it's common for them to save these for August, when everyone leaves for the coast or the mountains to cool off. And so public life comes to an almost complete standstill.

Many offices are also closed. And your cooperation is expected. Moreover: it is usually too hot to work in Italy in August.

4. 'Wine with lunch? Is this a joke?'

No, of course that's not a joke. If you work 45 hours a week and have to answer emails for work outside of that time, it's also important to enjoy the joys of life. During work, that is. Don't be surprised by a lunch break that takes place in a pizzeria or trattoria where the wine flows freely. But keep in mind that you are expected to go back to work after lunch.

5. "I'm sick, but I'll come anyway."

It is different in Italy than in the Netherlands, where you almost have to feel guilty if you call in sick. In Italy, your boss believes you when you say you are sick. It's not a point to be sick. In fact, if you're sick, no one wants to see you around. Imagine infecting them!

6. 'Italy is such a corrupt, bureaucratic gang!'

Yes, your Italian boss knows it too. He and your colleagues often complain about it themselves. But as an expat in Italy you should keep your mouth shut about this. At least if you don't want to be accused of bad manners.

Your boss has that whole red tape After all, you already have to go through to be able to hire you. Instead of complaining and looking at what is going wrong, focus on what is needed and how you can solve the problem.

7. Don't say anything

Silently entering and going to work is not one of them. In Italy you should at least wish your colleagues and your Italian boss a good morning, ask how you are doing and what they had to eat. Start the day with a chat and a smile, Italy will be so much better!

Source: thelocal.it